i have had my camellia in a pot since the 1980’s – last year the buds didn’t open, but this year they have all flourished and in fact the squirrels keep eating the flowers and buds.
the symmetrical beauty and long-lasting quality of the flower have long been appreciated by young lovers as the token for expressing devotion to each other. In the eyes of the Chinese, the petals reflect the spirit of a lady, and the holder of the petals (the calyx) represents the young man entrusted by the lady as her protector.
The calyx of the camellia falls with the petals when the flower has finished blooming. This is unlike most other flowers, where the calyx seems to hang around the tree even after the petals have dropped. This phenomena symbolizes an everlasting union between lovers. In many parts of China, the camellia is considered as the flower for young sons and daughters. it also symbolises graciousness.
i love that flowers can say more than thank you! in victorian times sending flowers was a method of sending your feelings.